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3 Simple Tips to Avoid Feeling Lazy

munfaridon — Sat, 08 Jan 2011 19:00:07 +0000

It was a lot of us who have a “disease” procrastinator job. This disease, which actually is a habit, often caused because we are lazy to do something. Feel like getting out of bed, lazy to go exercise, lazy accomplish office tasks, etc..

According to research, a lazy habit is mental illness that arises because we are afraid to face the consequences of the future. What is meant by this the future of not just one or two years but one or two minutes from now. For instance when you wake up lazy of you will say to himself: “One minute I’ll wake up”, but in reality you probably will linger in bed until finally it is time to get ready to go to the office.

Lazy habit arises because we tend to associate the future with negative perceptions. You are putting off work because they tend to imagine a stack of work to be done in the office. Not to mention touch with the people who you do not like, for example.

Unfortunately, putting off the job will eventually invite stress because one can not help when you have to do it. At the same time you also may have many other jobs.

In some cases, you also may lose the moment to develop when you say “no” to a chance-you are lazy to act as a negative shadow on the things that burden the front.

In this article I want to give some tips to overcome laziness. These tips can practice in the workplace or the family environment:

1st Tips – Replace “When will be finished” with “I’m Starting Now”

If you are faced with a large task or project, you should NOT think about it and imagine the complexity of the task can be completed at any time. Instead, focus on positive thoughts by dividing a large task into parts that are smaller and solve them one by one.

Tell every time you work: “I’m starting now. ”
This viewpoint will keep you from feeling overwhelmed, stress, and difficulties. You make a simple task in front of you with positive action. You just focus on one thing at a time, not many things at the same time.

2nd Tips – Replace “I must” with “I Want”

Thinking that you have to do things automatically will invite a feeling burdened and you become lazy to do it. You will find a thousand reasons to avoid the task.

One tip that you can use is to replace “I have to do it” with “I want to do it. ” How to think like this will remove mental blocks to accept that you do not have to do the job you do not want to.

You want to do the job because you want to do it, not because of coercion of others. You always have a choice in this life. Of course, your choice should be made aware of and do not harm others. The point is that no one else in this world that forces you to do anything that you do not want to do.

3rd Tips – Your Are Not a Perfect Man

Thinking that you must complete the work as perfect as possible will take you in a state of mental distress. As a result, you may be lazy started. You have to accept that you can do wrong and not all have to be perfect.

In the context of a job, you have the opportunity to make improvements over time. You can always negotiate with your boss to ask for additional time with good reason. Starting work from small and simple things, then increase over time. Thinking that the work must be completed properly will make you look at the work of this large and complex.

I hope this article useful. Laziness is something normal in your life. Because he normally then he can be overcome. The three tips above could be the beginning to think and act differently than usual so you do not waste the opportunity that came only because I was lazy to do it.

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4 Ways to Stay Motivated and Success

munfaridon — Sat, 08 Jan 2011 16:00:12 +0000

Being successful is the dream of all people. Of course, for it required a strong motivation to overcome challenges to achieve what you want. This motivation must be grown from within oneself. You could read hundreds of books or go to dozens of seminars to get an injection of motivation, but the thing that often happens is an increase in emotional moment for change. Perhaps this last one or two weeks and after that you feel everything back into mediocrity like the old conditions. Ever feel that way?

“Motivation is a tree that you flush with self discipline”

How do you stay motivated to work toward desired goals? The bottom line motivation is the art of communicating with yourself. This communication involves the feelings that you felt through the emotions that arise.

So what’s the difference between feelings and emotions?

Examples like this, if you feel guilty about the emotions that arise may fear being judged, wanted to escape, and so on. If you feel happy, his emotions can be a joy, joy, desire to share, etc.. Emotions arise as a result of the feelings that occur within the self.

So really easy to live motivated. The key is to feel happy things and imagine that you will achieve success. I guarantee you’ll be motivated to work.

In addition there are a few tips that I want to give so that you can be motivated anytime, anywhere:

1st way : Always consistent

Ease arise from habit. Motivation is the same. It requires discipline, so you get used to life with motivation. There is a great expression that says, “Something that you repeat every day for 21 days will become a habit. ” I encourage you to practice it. Start with simple things like smiling in front of a mirror, say “Yes” before work, and more.

2nd way : Responsible

You need someone who will remind you to remain in the destination. He is responsible for providing support and become a partner brainstorm for new ideas and that you have. From here you will feel a responsibility to provide the best for him. The process of achieving goals become easier with the presence of someone who is a mirror of yourself.

3rd way : Surround yourself with people who are visionary same

If you want to lose weight, make sure you are with the friends who have similar goals. If you want to build a business, friends with people who have been in the business world or those who want to start a business. You can get energy and motivation from them. It would be very easy to be motivated when you get support. What you perceive as barriers when working alone can be overcome with the help and support the vision of friends together.

4th way : Focus on process, not a destination

It is very important. Often you down mentally when faced with the difficulty to reach the goal. Focus on the process. Each process takes time. Either the fast, whether slow. Your objective is clear, but the journey to get there can be winding and up and down. With a focus on process you avoid the mental burden because now you have control over the process itself, rather than controlled by the target to achieve the goal.

Now you better know that motivation is the key to success. All you need now is a strong willingness to apply it in everyday life. Like what the saying goes “If There is a willingness there is a way“. Good work and do not forget to appreciate yourself in every moment of success no matter how small it is.

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How to solve the problems that come to you?

munfaridon — Sat, 08 Jan 2011 14:04:07 +0000

In my experience working and interacting with many people, I observe there are two types of people in the face of trouble or problems, whether in work or social life. Two types are reactive (reacting when problems come) and receptive (to accept the problem).

Reactive Approach

They are reactive usually see a problem as a threat. Whether the threat to his career, his business, his family, and so forth. In this group you find a solution to the problem by using a logical and traditional approaches. Characteristics:

Once the problem you’re likely to soon come looking for any way to overcome them.
The problem is seen as factors inhibiting the development of self.
You will soon formulate a strategy to deal with problems
Because the problem is seen as a threat, he will dominate the mind and tends to cause anxiety and stress.

If you work in a company, perhaps you’ve been asked to lead a project in which you are responsible for achieving certain targets. Here you are confronted with situations requiring analysis, justification, and logical thinking in the face of challenges or problems that arise. You will be in a depressed condition to meet the deadline. Predictably, you will tend to use a reactive approach in solving problems.

Receptive approach

This approach is usually practiced by those who have realized that the problem is not a threat but rather the consequences that arise from a condition that we create. Therefore we have the power to change these conditions from within ourselves. You are willing to accept the problem and at the same time making solusinya. Characteristics:

When trouble comes, you recognize it and use the approach:

The problem is the opposite of the solution. When problems arise, you believe that time also that the solution already exists.
You focus on the solution of problems that arise, rather than the cause of the problem. That way you take over control from within yourself, rather than be controlled by circumstances beyond.
The problem is an opportunity for self-development. You see it as an opportunity to create a positive reality in your life.

Want to receive the problem does not mean silence. You do not “full of anger” but recognize the problems in stride and make yourself responsive to everything you need to invite solutions.

The simplest example is when you love couples (eg wife, husband, or boyfriend) is being cranky because of trivial issues. With a reactive approach, you will only aggravate the situation by wondering why he should be cranky, analyze the cause and feel this condition would threaten the harmony of your relationship with him. Instead of solutions obtained but rather anxiety and concern.

With a receptive approach, you accept and realize that your partner is angry. You focus your energy to create affection which is basically the opposite of anger. You are not late getting carried away – try to find the answer from the analysis of why he was so angry – but it took over control from within yourself, stay calm thinking, and showed a positive attitude in your behavior. You will feel that in this situation makes you grow. You create positive qualities about yourself to surface and has become the law of nature with your partner act like this will undoubtedly change from anger to love.

This receptive approach can practice in the life business, households, and social. Essentially you build confidence that the problem is not real so you do not feel burdened. Train yourself not to be reactive when a problem arise. Focus yourself on the opposite of the problem, namely the solution, to find the control and not soluble in the matter.

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Always keep moving forward..

munfaridon — Mon, 20 Dec 2010 20:33:39 +0000

This time I want to give you a fundamental principle that has helped me succeed in my
own business. I wouldn’t tell you to do something I wasn’t willing to do myself, and in many cases, I’ve already DONE what I’m telling you to do. This is a great example.

What I’m talking about is always moving forward, both in your business and in your life.

Here’s what that means in practical terms. You should always strive to improve everything you’re doing, whether it’s running your business or managing your life. And you should always be on the looking for new things to explore. I’m not suggesting that you won’t ever
have to take a detour, or even have to stop for a while. Those things happen, and it’s okay.

And I’m not saying you should lose focus and chase everything that comes along. I’m
talking about a different kind of moving, where you’re moving toward your goals and
exploring the paths to get there.

The more you move forward, even if it’s just a very little bit at a time, the better off you’ll be. There are four reasons why this true.

First, you’ll be learning.

I have learned far more from moving than I have from sitting still. Even when I fail, I get something out of it simply because I choose to see it as an opportunity to learn.

For example, when I first started online, I was trying to make a particular business model work for me. It was a complete flop. It just didn’t work at all (it had to do with a sort of franchise opportunity with physical products).

I had to give up on it when it became obvious that it wasn’t going to work. But along the way, I learned all sorts of skills I still use today on different things. All because I was moving.

And here’s a more recent example. You’ve probably noticed that lots of people are promoting…I’ll try to be diplomatic here…junky products and using a ton of hype to do it.

That has made it MUCH harder for legit affiliate marketers like me to get good results from promotions for truly excellent products. Now, on the one hand I’m bothered by the fact that some folks are sort of ruining it for everybody.

On the other hand, I’ve had a great opportunity to educate myself on why hype ruins trust. And I’ve been able to come up with some pretty exciting plans for how to avoid it entirely in my business, which makes me feel jazzed about the future.

Frustration is part of living, but if you turn that into a learning opportunity, it’s a way to move yourself forward instead of wallowing in disappointment.

Second, you’ll find more opportunities. Nothing helps you stay positive like finding new ways to succeed. And there’s no better way to find those than moving!

I can understand if you feel down in the dumps. We’ve all been there. But if you keep moving, always trying to improve and learn and do new things, I’ll almost guarantee that you’ll find new opportunities all over the place.

This has happened in my own business more than once. I remember a time when I created my own product. It was a great video course on a topic I’m sure everybody would be interested in…but very few people were.

I didn’t know why nobody wanted it (it was a free product, too), but that’s how it
went. I was pretty angry about it for a while, but then I thought about what happened. My promotion didn’t work, but I still had a great product that would give me more opportunities.

Not too long after that, I ended up promoting somebody else’s related product, and my course was a perfect fit as a bonus. That’s another opportunity I never would have found if I hadn’t been moving.

Third, you’ll stay motivated.

My readers send me email all the time to say that they’re stuck. They feel like a failure. They’re sick of struggling. I’m sure you’ve felt that way. I’ve felt that way myself, and I know it’s awful.

When you feel that way, it’s very easy to stop moving and quit. It’s natural to pull inside your shell and stagnate when your excitement is gone.

Here’s the weird part…that’s also the best time to move.

It almost doesn’t matter what you do when you start feeling that way:

* You can finish the project you put down a few weeks ago, just to do it

* You can reach out to some friends for advice

* You can try something brand new that you wanted to try, but were too busy to do it

It’s those times when your motivation is extremely low that you’re most likely to find new interests, new skills and new opportunities. At least that’s always been true for me. It’s also a chance to analyze what you’re doing. I’ve definitely seen this in my own business.

I remember a time last year when I was working so much that I felt almost sick. It was non-stop crazy, and it got to the point where I dreaded working every day. That’s rare for me, because I usually love what I do. My motivation was completely shot.

That’s when I took a step back to really ponder why I felt terrible and hated what I used to love. In the end, I realized I had committed to helping so many people with their product launches that all the fun had gone out of it for me!

Here’s the lesson I learned…I was so busy that I didn’t have any room to move in ways that were helping me improve, either personally or professionally. Remember, that’s what productive motion is about, not just flailing around (although sometimes, doing ANYTHING can help get you going, like I mentioned before).

So I decide to change some things. I intentionally scaled my business back for a while, so I could breathe a bit. Yep, I took a pay cut on purpose, and I admit, it wasn’t easy. But when I did it, I discovered that I started loving what I was doing again. The motivation came back, and my results have been great.

Fourth, you’ll attract other movers.

Honestly, this has been the most exciting part of my business.

When I first started, I didn’t interact with other marketers much. I was a little nervous about it, so I kept to myself. That was a huge mistake. I cut myself off from a ton of opportunities that way.

Then a few years later, I met Mike Filsaime. Nobody even knew our names back
then. He didn’t know much about me, and I didn’t know much about him, but we decided that we would start moving together on a few projects.

Not all of those projects succeeded, but a couple of them took off like rockets. In a way, we helped each other make our reputations…all because we decided to keep moving, even though we weren’t “experts” on much of anything.

Since then, we’ve both gone on to bigger and better things. One of the big reasons for that is that we both developed a reputation as guys who move. We learn. We’re creative. We’re constantly exploring new things.

There’s no reason in the world that you can’t start moving like that in your own business. It’s a choice.

One of the realities I hope you’re learning about Internet business is that it IS a business. It takes some discipline to succeed. It’s not an overnight thing. But moving can help get you there.

Highly successful people move. They rarely stop, unless it’s on purpose to analyze what they’re doing. Most of the time, they’re striving to improve, striving to learn, striving to experience new things.

If you do that, your chances of success will go way up.

All the best,

Dont waste Your time with problems that can’t handle by Yourself

munfaridon — Mon, 01 Nov 2010 12:31:44 +0000

Maybe you experience this frequently. When you’re facing a problem and you feel able to handle it alone. But it did not. The problem you face is not resolved and you are actually experiencing a more severe losses. The longer time passes, the cost to swell and the problem did not go well resolved.

How should?

Let’s start with a simple example of your motorcycle-tire burst. Then you insist on yourself that you are able to solve and handle this problem alone. You then try to patch itself. But it turns out you do not have the equipment tire. Are you then choose to purchase equipment tire, then learn how to patch up, and new patching a leaking tire your bike? Or find a tire repair shop and entrusting to patch up your bike tires?

I am sure you will not choose the first option earlier. You’ll find the tire repair shop and then have to wait a while and you can return to continue the journey. Simple and effective.

Maybe your are a company leader, you might also a people who are good, but there is always a limitation in yourself. And there are others who can fill you lack it.

The same applies to your business. Here you can empower existing resources to achieve your goals. You can explain what your goals and ask them to do so. Thus, your problem will be resolved more quickly.

Easy for example if you’re not too adept in making the article then you can hire a writer, or if you do not have time to write you can also hire a writer. If you are not adept with the link building or seo, than just search for the right people who know about it and handle your problems, then pay them, if you do not have the money to pay them then you have much to learn and handle it by yourself.

In any business there is certainlyalways a challenge. And the only business that is able to properly in handle the challenges is will grow.

Walk first and than You can run – “theory and practice”

munfaridon — Thu, 09 Sep 2010 00:50:10 +0000

If you are a big fan of Spongebob Squarepants, then you surely know that one episode of “Mrs. Puff, You’re Fired” (season 4), we are told that teachers in schools where learning to drive in fired for being incompetent because not successful in passing Spongebob 1,258,056 times the test. Instead, these schools send their best instructors who teach with military force. Rather than teach the theory, he immediately asked for Spongebob to practice. It was not practical to drive, but starting from the practice of crawling around the track, and then followed by a practice run, run, and so on. Here are excerpts of the conversation:

I: What are you supposed to be learning in my class?
S: How to drive, sir?
I: Affirmative. But before you learn to drive, you must learn to crawl. And then you learn to walk, and then you learn to run. But before you learn to walk, you must learn to crawl! I want you to crawl!
S: Sir, yes, sir!

In the end, Spongebob exactly adept at driving by using the cover although in the end (Sponge Bikini Bottoms destroyed the city) because it was driving with closed eyes is not permitted and violating traffic rules, is’nt it. Apart from the instructions that make no sense to learn how to drive with the beginning of crawling around the track, the concept of “walk before run” is one of the general guidelines in life. Also included for success.

And the concept itself could have a broad meaning. Like, learn the theory first before going into practice. Or, learn basic techniques first before continuing to the more advanced. or, try to lower the target first before higher.

Of course, there is no doubt that there are those fortunate or genius who could be an immediate success at high levels. However, whether consciously or not, basic skills in lower levels will also sometime they need. A horse, for example, from birth he was immediately able to walk (I am not sure if he has also been able to directly run or take time). But if one day his legs hurt and unable to walk, yet he also had to crawl as well.

What about internet business?

Well, based on experience when meet with peoples that interested in internet business, I know that many who wanted to be an immediate success. They want directly earn 4 digits of dollars permonth without going to learn to make 1 digit permonth in advance. or, they want directly have keyword that 1 ranking in the super-competitive without wanting to learn how to optimize for keywords that are more lightweight competition first. or, they want to be able to make their sites visited by 1.000 visitors perday without wanting to learn how to bring 10 visitors perday at first.

Success is not easy. But when successful, things will undoubtedly become easier.

Have You Really Focus In Running Internet Business?

munfaridon — Wed, 25 Nov 2009 19:23:10 +0000

In carrying out something good in any form, especially in business, focus is something that is absolutely essential to have and is owned by someone, focus on the need to protect ourselves from failure, because failure can come in when we are in a state not ready, guard and focus. Try to see a football game, if one player is not focused until the end of the game, the player likely will take his team to defeat.

Have You Really Fokus In Running Internet Business? Let’s going in internet business…..

You may already know that the opportunity on internet business is so many kinds. Not only in internet business in general, but somethings like blog monetization, which is one branch of internet business can be divided into several sections. This means that you have a lots of and so many alternative ways to make money from the internet.

It’s that became a trap for most players in internet business. The number of opportunities that make them want to try everything IN ONE TIME. The hope is, if 5ways to start, at least 1 way to achieve. In fact, it is usually conceded or none of this ways can produce an achievement.

It must be understood that each Internet business, whatever it is, has its own characteristics that are not equal to one another. therefore, to master each of these Internet businesses, required techniques and different in how to approach of each kinds. This means again, no one of internet business that can control any type of ALL existing Internet businesses simultaneously or in one time.

That is why we must have to focus in control of each kind of existing internet business. Choose one branch of the Internet business that best suits with our ability and resources we have, then focus our energy and thoughts to learn and practice these internet businesses. Until when? Until you are in a position that completely succeed or fail.

In addition to focus on one branch of the Internet business, you also need to focus on your goals. Which become a successful Internet business.

InterneT business is about system. A successful Internet business must have a good working system. And if you really want to be an internet business, focus to ‘search’ effective and efficient system and use it in internet business you are doing.

Now it’s up to you, whether you are able to perform many opportunities at one time with a focus, or you can just focus on one opportunity at a time, it all depends on you, understand yourself if you are able to focus in these conditions

Be Proud If You Ever Feel The Failure In Business

munfaridon — Mon, 23 Nov 2009 11:19:38 +0000

You never feel a failure? Perhaps the answer could be yes, but maybe not. Although failure is common in business, especially in the (internet business), but not a few who had never tasted a failure. Once started the business on the internet, instantly successful. Little effort, an immediate success. Delicious, yes? Are you one of them who have never had a failure? Or, do you want to be one of them?

My Advice : Dont

If you have failed, be smile and be proud you have failed, because the next time you succeed, then you achieve success is true success. Not just of luck.

Another advantage if you ever fail, especially in the beginning, mentally become more honed. Try to imagine, which person will be feel more stress, (1) succeed first and then fail, or (2) Fail first than successfully. I do not know about you, but my experience teaches that as long as we have failed, then bounce back from adversity is not a difficult thing.

So, be proud if you have or are currently failing. Because failure is not the experience you may have forgotten. Because failure is the best teacher you could ever meet. And because failure is a gift that not everybody is lucky to get it.

that’s it

4 Reasons Why Every Internet Business Need Own Blog

munfaridon — Tue, 17 Nov 2009 05:35:26 +0000

First of all, what I mean here is every person who run internet business need own a personal blog, not a blog specially made for the purposes of monetization. For example, John Chow blog, Yaro Starak, Darren Rowse, and many other example. Unlike the outside, in my country there is rarely a serious person who running his internet business while still taking care of his personal blog with a routine, and than forgot all his own blog, especially if he has successful. Or there is the opposite. create blogs, but only temporarily in the care. After that, at best only be made to promote a product or a referral link. whether any of us who feel like this?

Now, what is the reasons every person who run an internet business need own blog cared for and managed of course?

Reason 1 : Brand
With a blog, you can get people to know and knowing your existence, either from your name, your slogan, your logo, or even a blog or your domain name. Can not be denied that many of the blog name or domain name which could become its own brand and made a name owner.

Reason 2 : Trust
With a blog, you can increase the trust of others to yourself (and your product). They can find out your opinions, your activities, and most importantly, they would have a parameter to assess yourself, what if ‘fit’ with them or not.

Reason 3 : Relationship
With a blog, you can establish a relationship between you and the visitors who could have been a customer or potential customer for your product. Thus, there is closeness between you and them. Although they do not necessarily buy your product, but there is a possibility that they will recommend your product.

Reason 4 : Additional Income
This one I think is quite clear. Although not a primary goal, but it never hurts to seek additional income from personal blogs that we have.

So, did you have a blog?

You Need To Have Vision And Targets In Internet Business

munfaridon — Wed, 04 Nov 2009 08:10:13 +0000

Once, I asked to one of my friends to predict the lines of my hand. From some of the things he told of the results of reading the lines the hand, he said that I was ‘destined’ to always depend on others people as financially. With the assumption that ‘others’ is my parents, it is quite sad too hear. Hell, so i will keep going to bother my parents? Well, apart from true whether or not this prediction, since then I decide to do my best to be able to live independently and no longer dependent on may parents. That is vision and targets when first time starting an Internet business.

Effect unconscious from a vision was extraordinary. From what I experienced so far, that’s what makes me stay focused and did not stop trying even though many trials that come. And I can say, in the world of Internet businesses that will need hard work and careful thought which we live now, it was naturally that each online business has a vision and targets.

Indeed what the difference between vision and targets?

For me, vision is the ultimate goal or long-term goal we want to achieve. While the target is a short-term goals that must be traveled to achieve long-term goals that we have.

since last year my vision has been fulfilled. In order to achieve this vision, I set some short-term targets that must be met in order. For example:

* Make money from the internet for $ 100 / month
* Make money from the internet for $ 500 / month
* Make money from the internet for $ 1,000 / month

Well, if the vision serves as a guard so that we stay focused and did not stop in the middle of the road, the target serves as a director of action and whatever decisions we must take. For example, to earn $ 100 / month, the steps I need to do is:

* Having 1 to 3 blogs that are routinely update
* Optimizing these blogs, both from the side view, SEO, and ads laying
* Use PPC as a source of income and affiliate program

If the target has been reached, the next strategy is determined based on our next target. In this case, income of $ 500 / month. The steps to be taken such as:

* Having 4-6 blogs that are routinely update
* Optimizing these blogs, both from the side view, SEO, and ads laying
* Using PPC and affiliate as a source of income

The two examples above I think it is enough to explain the differences in vision and targets, as well as their implementation. And remember, even though vision is the long-term goals, there is nothing wrong if one time, when your vision is fulfilled, you revise your vision with the other vision more in line with your condition. My own vision now is to find the right system to increase revenue and reduce working time. Transfer the focus from blog Monetizing to the digital products creation is one of my strategy to perform.

How about you? Have you own a vision in the Internet business?

If you have please, please to be shared here….